Synergy

"We accept the love we think we deserve", says the famous quote. I say, "We shape the ones we love. We ochestrate how we are loved." I think this is more accurate. We are more powerful than we claim ourselves to be.

Be Unconditional

There will always be those who would measure you up and put you in a box they've created. There will be times when you'll be weighed like dead meat and nobody will give a fuck about how you feel. You will be Ignored. Unseen. Forgotten. You won't always get a prize for being treated like …

Forgive

Forgiveness is inevitable if one longs to be free and fully at peace. We may be blinded at times, mistaking our anger for self-love or self-righteousness, when in reality, it's our last ditch effort to hold on to the past, to cling so desperately to what's no longer serving us out of fear of the …

Choose Yourself

In the recent years, looking back, I noted that I was able to have/create what I really wanted not by actively pursuing them, but by giving them up. It's counter-intuitive, I know, but the lesson I get is always simple and always the same: When you honor your values, when you don't settle for less …

Accept the Insult

I recently went through a period of intense disconnect with myself. My self-esteem was at a point so low I even dared to lick every trickle of validation I could get from the people around me. I felt was confused and lost. I didn't know who I was and what my spirit really wanted to …

There’s a Victim and a Fighter in all of us – To the Woman who can’t leave her abusive partner

I don't claim to know your reasons. I don't claim to know your situation. I've never been a wife and a mother. But I am a woman. There was this striking moment in my life that I could not shake off, 'cause that's the point - I should not let that memory go. It has …