Closeness

We can only be truly close with someone else, once we're able to let go and simply "be" ourselves. "Being" is not thinking, not analyzing, not planning, not evaluating. It's neither about doing nor having. Being oneself is total surrender. It's putting all your walls down, dissolving them back into the ether. It's asking Spirit …

We are meant to Flow

Our fixation on definitions, appearances, and outcomes creates difficulty in our lives. They make us struggle because we are making things happen by pushing, pulling and twisting ourselves, other people and situations. If we let go of our fixation and live according to the flow of energy, life stops being difficult. Life has its own …

About Healing

Healing is restoring a totally new level of wholeness. It's not just going back to the previous state. It's becoming more. It usually starts with an opening - a cut, exposure. There's an opening because there is an initial and an ongoing intention to expand. Creation desires to expand. We are a part of Creation. …

All of Me

I want none of your projections. I don't want to be put on a pedestal. All I want is to be in front of you as I am, a human, with the sum of who I've become up to this point. None of my possibilities matter. My transformation would never be complete. All I want …

Clearing Judgments

There is value in letting others know how they've impacted us in profound and positive ways. It can act as a catalyst for them to clear up any judgment that they or others have misplaced on an aspect of themselves or on something they've done in the past. Hurting someone with our hands doesn't justify …

Organic Growth

Having someone pull the weight on their own, in any relationship dynamic, may keep things from spiraling further. This can work as a temporary measure until a more sustainable one is set in place. However, if this becomes a long-term strategy, then we can only expect to go one step forward and four steps backward …

On Partnerships

Me: When will I find the partnership that fulfills my desires and needs? Me, but wiser: When you've stopped relying on that type of relationship to fulfill your desires and needs. You cannot attract what you are not. You cannot see in others what you cannot see in yourself. Even if you did attract that …