Closeness

We can only be truly close with someone else, once we're able to let go and simply "be" ourselves. "Being" is not thinking, not analyzing, not planning, not evaluating. It's neither about doing nor having. Being oneself is total surrender. It's putting all your walls down, dissolving them back into the ether. It's asking Spirit …

There’s no such thing as “too much” Independence

There's no such thing as "too much" independence. Independence or self-sufficiency isn't the culprit but the unwillingness to receive. The Empress archetype is self-sufficient, no doubt, and yet she is the epitome of receptivity. We can be in our power and also feminine - yielding, open, receiving of all that life is offering us. We …

Mirroring

What bothers us in others needs healing in ourselves. Most of the time we are oblivious to our patterns. We don't notice the trail of situations we leave behind, the stories that seem to repeat themselves, the types of people that seem to follow us anywhere we go. Sometimes, it takes another person to point …

All of Me

I want none of your projections. I don't want to be put on a pedestal. All I want is to be in front of you as I am, a human, with the sum of who I've become up to this point. None of my possibilities matter. My transformation would never be complete. All I want …

Love is Light

Love is not about stooping so low to fit the status quo, Love is about lifting yourself so high that you are able to inspire others to lift themselves up, too. What chains us to unhealthy relationships are beliefs of fear, lack, and unworthiness. We don't believe we are enough. We don't believe we have …

Upholding Truths

There are always two sides to the truth - what we know and what we don't, what's revealed and what isn't. Honoring truth is a personal choice. It could be a tough lesson for many of us to learn that not everyone makes this choice. Some people choose to deny the truth even from themselves, …